tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2174620211563103171.post8452944457840787936..comments2023-08-19T23:10:01.810+02:00Comments on NO ME GUSTA: No quiero tener un millón de amigos (...y así más fuerte poder molar)La Magdalenohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14535189692815545800noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2174620211563103171.post-10312075475994518892014-08-12T20:22:20.312+02:002014-08-12T20:22:20.312+02:00It almost felt like I was talking to myself, a few...It almost felt like I was talking to myself, a few years back, while reading what you've wrote. I still believe deeply and agree with it, yet life happens. And unfortunately (or fortunately) I can't really say it out loud exactly how I think it or how you wrote it.<br /><br />I've always been very critical of people having to please other people "just because that's how it's supposed to be" (whatever that means). With that said, I found out the hard way that it's not just me that doesn't want to talk to other people, other people don't want to talk to me either. Meaning, it ends up being a bit ego centrical to think that it's only other people that annoys us and that we're perfect and all (I'm still talking about myself) when in fact, we annoy other people as much as other people annoy us. Other people don't give a crap if we're feminists, vegan, alcoholics, Barcelona or Real Madrid fans. But, one way or the other, sometimes without realizing it, we all end up trying to make our points of view heard in some sort of recognition that "we're right" and the "rest of the world" is "wrong" (in whatever subject).<br /><br />Since I've realized this, I've sort of thrown the towel and gave up. Well, only sort of. In fact, I still don't give a crap about pleasing most people, but I consciously try to don't give crap to anyone either. I still have my views on the world but I only offer them if asked for it or if I know that the other person shares them. Otherwise, what will happen is a discussion with no real gain or conclusion. We're all too old (just turned 30 this year) to start changing our views just because someone else has something different to say, so, bottom line it's not worth it.<br /><br />I say, live and let live. Maybe I don't care if someone else does Yoga but, if we're talking statistics, that person will probably have something else interesting going on and I'm hoping that that other person with think the same about me.<br /><br />(I've probably went a bit off track from the subject but, yeah, rant over)✕ Framedhttp://www.crossframed.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2174620211563103171.post-31717812887847836792014-06-21T12:25:10.950+02:002014-06-21T12:25:10.950+02:00A veces nos obcecamos tanto en intentar gustar a o...A veces nos obcecamos tanto en intentar gustar a otra persona que nos olvidamos de lo que nos gusta a nosotros. Me alegro de que ya no tengas miedo :)La Magdalenohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14535189692815545800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2174620211563103171.post-27631955071494384832014-06-21T10:47:59.264+02:002014-06-21T10:47:59.264+02:00Recuerdo que a mi eso de intentar agradar me pasab...Recuerdo que a mi eso de intentar agradar me pasaba con las chicas con las que quedaba, por eso todas mis relaciones fracasaban, porque al final todo era inte tar gustar más que gustar, y en ese terreno aparece la decepción. Hasta que a los 24 o así dije... nunca más, si se hunde el barco que se hunda, pero siendo uno mismo desde el minuto cero. Con el tiempo lo he aplicado a todo, y la verdad es que no me ha ido nada mal. Se disfruta más sin miedo al que dirán.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com